When you go to a new place the first thing you try to do is to interact with people there.
When i came to IIIT i also tried to do the same.In that course, the first guy i came across was a
guy from gorakhpur. As far as i can remember he was wearing red shirt and a six pocket jeans (
About his six pocket jeans, whenever he wore it, it rained ). After getting our intro and adjusting our rooms, we went to mess together and in no time i found out one very interesting and identifying characteristics of this guy. Every single sentence coming out of his vocal cord was having a very amazing pattern for the data mining guyz. It used to have more bad words than meaningful sense carriers. I thought and wondered,"
how can a guy vituperate so much." Leaving his bad mouth I think this guy was really a gem. The best thing about this guy, i felt was his honesty and purity at hearts. Also sometimes he became so childish and innocent that talking to him would remind you of your childhood. Only problem was his expressions which was too much invictive . I remember because of it only once he had a confrontation with Ramneek when he said something to ramneek. Though he said it lightly but ramneek took it in a wrong way. So once when he was alone, I also pointed out to him,"
Dont you think you use more invective language than required ? isn't it bad ?." But after saying it to him, I dont know why but I myself felt very bad. I said to myself,"
who are you to preach him what to do and what not ?.It's his life and he has all rights to do whatever he wants or whatever he says." I dont remember what were his responses on that but believe me that whole night a struggle was going in my mind as whether i did the right thing or wrong. While one part of my brain was telling that I did the right thing as i feel myself as his friend and it is a friends duty only to suggest whether whatever he is doing is right or wrong. But suddenly another thought had striked in my mind as it suggested that even the best of friends doesnt have the rights to cross the limits and havent i crossed the limits by haranguing him.
Crap thinking na..well i usually think such craps and am entangled in these struggles of minds. Thats what i am like and i cant help it too.
Anyways after someday he explained me the reason for his speaking of so many abuses. He explained that
there are always some gaps between your thoughts and your expressions of those thoughts. And every individual has its own way to fill those gaps. Some (like sunil ) stays silent to cover up those gaps while ( like rakesh ) some gives a heartly smile to fill them . So his ways were to adore these abuses as a fillers for those gaps.
Those days we used to have our
HEALTHY INTERACTIONS with our seniors and he was one of the most favourites BAKRA of our seniors. I heard that he wrote a STORY ( was that really a story ?? ) about none other than Preity Zinta and all the seniors were gaga over his STORY. Here I cannot stop myself from writing the fact that he writes damn good...Well sometimes i think that
had he not been a software engineer he would be definitely an author. Also those days he was made to propose probably three to four girls of our batch in DCH style. Specifically for this purpose, he was shown this movie by our seniors and he was told to get the dialogues by heart.
And yeah !!
I also made him dance on the song "Jeena Yahan Marna Wahan" from the movie
"Mera Naam Joker"...One of our senior ( Gautam Sood ) once asked me to sing a song and asked utkarsh to dance on that..and to his worst luck the song that striked my mind was "Jeena yahan marna wahan "..poor guy..I cannot tell you how frustrated he was as it was not a song with dance numbers..and when i started the senior told me to continue and asked utkarsh to dance on this song only..he was just moving one step forward and one backward with both hands on his chest. I really enjoyed that moment watchin him dance on my tunes ;). Those were the days .. really full of fun.
Oops !! I couldnt remember fully ..but there was some MUKTA's episode also which ultimately led tears roll down his cheek.
Well !! I remember..whole second sememster i rarely saw him in the mess..It was also not so that he used to go to restaurants or hotels to conquer his hunger rather his lunch and dinner used to be just one packet of "LAYS" chips on an average. I wondered how could he survive. It is he only who introduced me with parivesh and sunil about which i will post in the coming blogs.
The guy about which i am writing is none other than our kishan kanhaiya "
Mr Utkarsh Khare" and utkarsh believe me when i say kishan kanhaiya..its not an insult..neither it is a compliment..rather
it is a proof of the fact that MOST of the girls dont have a brain ;) ..otherwise how could they get impressed by you.
Well during past four years, lots of things have happend to us..we saw lots of changes..utkarsh also lost his identity ;) as he stopped using abusive words...he became more mature...we came closer to each other...we started understanding each other in a better way.. and this memoryless system ie myself has also accumulated so much memories about each one of those events influencing every single parts of our life that I can write an entire book on that.
There are a lot more things about him which i wanted to point but you all know
that I am a very very BUSY person ;) , I will write about them in some other blogs.
In the end i can safely say about him that
if you don't feel good in his presence it can only be because you are jealous of him . He is undoubtedly one of the best person you can ever meet. I also wanted to quote rakesh's testimonial about him on orkut, each and every single word of which is dipped with the ink of truth.
Thoda sidha, thoda sachcha ...
harkaton se bilkul bachcha ...
Dil ka nek.. iman ka pakka ...
Hamara "Khare" sabse achcha ...
Hip Hip Khare